A Simple Way to Raise a Kid
Philosophers have a funny habit. Very often they take something that is almost embarrassingly obvious and wrap it in complicated language until it sounds like a discovery. Sometimes they really are the first person to say it, and they get famous for putting words on something everyone vaguely sensed. And sometimes the philosopher simply says something out loud that people quietly knew but nobody quite dared to say.
I had one of those moments when I started thinking about how I actually raise my daughter.
I’m a single parent, a father, and my child spends about ninety percent of her time with me. At some point I caught myself wondering what my “method” really was. Not in the academic sense, but in the practical sense: what am I actually doing every day? When I later looked at a few educational theories, I noticed something funny. A lot of what I was doing already had names. Psychologists and philosophers had been writing about it for years.
So here it is. My so-called secret recipe. Feel free to steal it.